About the tool
A simple, practical framework for supporting prenatal bonding and early attachment awareness — built for real conversations and everyday care.
How it works
Pregnancy BASICS is structured into four easy-to-use components, which can be used flexibly during routine appointments or targeted interventions:
Conversation Starters
Open-ended questions for each trimester, such as:
- “How did you feel when you first felt the baby move?”
- “Do you ever talk or sing to your baby?”
- “What are you most looking forward to when your baby arrives?”
These prompts are designed to invite reflection, explore emotions, and spark parent-led dialogue — without judgement or pressure.
Observations & Reflections
There are six core areas of observation to notice signs of bonding:
- Physical engagement
- Verbal engagement
- Sensitivity engagement
- Emotional engagement
- Protective/nurturing behaviours
- Preparation behaviours
These observations are informal, non-intrusive, and based on authentic interactions — a parent cradling their bump, using a nickname, adjusting to baby’s movements, or speaking warmly about the baby.
Attachment Indicator Scale
A simple -1 to 2 scale that helps practitioners summarise bonding across the six observation areas.
This can be used for supervision, reflective practice, or service evaluation, but it’s entirely optional.
Support Pathways
If signs of bonding are low or inconsistent, the tool provides clear next steps and signposting for support:
- Encouraging practical bonding strategies (talking to bump, journaling, light play)
- Exploring emotional barriers to connection
- Signposting to local mental health teams, parenting programmes or the Pregnancy Bonding Programme
